Sexual advice

Unfortunately, sexual counselling cannot currently be carried out at the counselling centre in Lörrach, inquiries from the district of Lörrach could either be carried out by video counselling or take place as face-to-face counselling in the pro familia Freiburg.

“If it weren’t for sex, we as a couple wouldn’t be so bad, but I don’t know exactly how to say it.”

For most people, self-determined, loving and satisfying sexuality is an elementary need – regardless of age, form of partnership or sexual orientation. She accompanies us in a multi-layered way our entire life. Sexuality is for many love relationships an important part of their togetherness and humanity.

Conversely, the lack or problematic sexuality within a love relationship is experienced by most people as distressing and leads to dissatisfaction with themselves, the loved one and the partnership as a whole.

Sexuality is not only innate to us, but also an ability that we can discover, explore and expand at any point in our lives

Although there is much talk about sexuality, sincere conversations are rare. Sexuality faces a considerable pressure to perform like hardly any other area of life: it is to be ecstatic and satisfying, to compensate for suffering and disappointment and to be regarded as a measure of love. So it is not surprising that sexual desirelessness is one of the most common complaints of couple relationships of our day.

We offer counselling and therapy for men, women and couples who e.g.

lost their sexual desire
sense that their love suffers due to sexual dissatisfaction
rarely have sex with each other or have not been for a long time
have different levels of sexual desire and this leads to conflicts
have difficulty speaking openly to each other about sexual desires
suffer from erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, lack of climax and/or pain during intercourse (functional disorders)
whose experience is impaired by abuse or sexual violence,
have questions about sexual orientation and/or sexual identity
who experience their sexuality changed or restricted by physical illnesses or operations.
We know about the irritations, hardships, insecurities, fears, resistances and emotional hurts, the withheld expectations and unfulfilled desires that can block the carefree sexual experience, security and satisfaction.

If you want to change your sexual life in partnership and make it more fulfilling, let us talk to each other. Take the time to talk about their sexualities in a mindful and open conversational framework.

Age and sexuality 

Advice, exchange of experience and information on the topics:

mental, physical and social changes in old age
Myth and reality of love in old age
Loneliness
new partnership